Since when and how does how many children a person has determine their character. I have heard so many negative things about people with a lot of kids or how close the kids are in age. None of that has to do with the parent’s character. Yes you have some people that live off the government or that abuse the system by having a lot of kids but they does not mean that is the plan or the issue of every one. I have seen where women have told other women to run away from a man with a certain amount of kids or kids period but these same women will bash a man for not dealing with a women with kids or a certain amount of kids. I have figured the assumption comes from their perception of stability and relationships status not knowing anything about the other person they were in a relationship with or anything about how they live. It’s a shame that society or people in general, decide what kind of person you are based on how many kids you have. I have been in stores have a great conversation with people until the topic of kids comes up. Then the conversation shuts down and I guess people’s perception of me changes which is retarded. I tell people I want another kid in the future I get stupid looks and asked why would I keep doing that or that I am nuts for wanting that many children.
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